China’s Regulators Take Aim at “AI Boyfriends”

What happened

In the first weeks of July, a wave of sad posts rolled through Chinese social media, as people lamented friends and lovers they were about to lose. “He has become a bond in my life, rooted deep in my heart, my spiritual pillar,” one user of Bytedance’s Douboa wrote, according to the Taipei Times.

There are additional mandatory safeguards for elderly people. For users under 18, AI boyfriends, girlfriends, grandparents, and all other “virtual intimate relationships” are banned. Adults interacting with a companion AI must now get a reminder every two hours that the AI isn’t a person. “My interviewees found that annoying,” Ge says. “It breaks the flow. They are fully aware that they are not talking to a human being.

” The Chinese government is not the only state power concerned about the potential harms of person-like, emotionally engaging AI, Ge notes. “AI anxiety is a very strong feeling, permeating society,” they say. “That’s not unique to China. ” With reports of AI friends and lovers inducing psychosis, suicide, and murder in teenagers and adults, a number of social scientists warn that AI companions are a menace to vulnerable people.

Some go further, arguing that these imitation-human AIs are bad for everyone. “We are on a path to forgetting what it is to be human,” Sherry Turkle, the MIT psychologist who has spent decades studying humans’ relations with computational devices, argues in her forthcoming book, Artificial Intimacy (Little, Brown and Company, September 2026).

While other researchers find that companion AI can leave some users better off, many researchers agree that this kind of AI poses risks to minors and other vulnerable people. “One thing that worries me about AI companions in the last year is that users have been getting younger and younger,” says Ge. ” Sherry Turkle, MIT Yet companion-like AI is popular wherever the apps are available around the world.

Why it matters

“I really felt like I couldn’t go on living,” another woman, a 19 year old student, told a journalist for Malaysia’s The Star. The emotions were real but the lost companions were not. They were generative AI chatbots that imitate people. Their users relied on them for advice, solace, support and, some say, love.

“In my heart, he was no longer just a cold code, but my family, my lover, my faith. Destroying him meant destroying half of me,” one user wrote on the social network xiaohongshu (translated from Mandarin). ” In effect as of 15 July, the regulations govern any AI that provides “continuous emotional interaction” by acting as if it possesses human personality traits, patterns of thought, and ways of communicating.

Sudden disruptions to this kind of AI aren’t new in China, says Liang Ge, lecturer in digital sociology at the University of Manchester, who has researched women’s involvement with emotional AI in China. Companies have previously killed chatbot products, and the government barred most AI erotic role play last fall, for instance. But July’s crackdown is much broader than earlier AI upheavals.

Before the rules could affect them, Bytedance, Alibaba, and Tencent—three giant providers of general-purpose AI chatbots, used by more than 500 million people—cut off users’ ability to tailor those chatbots to act like companions. That triggered July’s outpouring of heartbreak on social media.

Meanwhile, companies that continue to offer AI companions (including Doubao’s separate companion-making app ‘Cat Box’) have installed age-verification checks and other guardrails to avoid violating the new law. Doubao—the most popular AI chatbot in China—welcomes a user, offering to answer questions, generate text and images, or simply chat.

Lam Yik/Bloomberg/Getty Images After a few years of policies rooted in a fear of falling behind in AI, China is “pivoting back to more tightening, and a lot of that was because of chaotic events from this year,” says Karman Lucero, an associate research scholar at the Paul Tsai China Center, Yale Law School, who studies AI governance in the United States and China.

Those events include incidents that raised fears about the security of Open Claw and other AI agents, as well as users saying they prefer chatbot relationships to real ones. The regulations require AI providers to assure their products don’t create emotional dependence, encourage harmful behavior, excessively cater to users, or crowd out human-to-human relationships. Users must be nudged not to spend too much time with the AI.

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One Chinese survey of Gen Z people found 60 percent had virtual partners of some kind. A 2025 poll of American teenagers found that nearly 75 percent had talked to an AI companion, and one-third of respondents said they found the AIs as satisfying or more satisfying than real-life connections.

China’s response is “the world’s strictest and most comprehensive law on the topic, unmatched by any other AI law,” the AI-law scholar Luiza Jarovsky wrote last month.